Saturday 16 March 2024

Need for Deliverance in Delay to Marry



We thank DC Coordinator Pastor Adenike Abidoye for an illuminating session on The Need for Deliverance in Healing. This was during our second DC Special Whatsapp Group Meeting

Anyone who recorded or noted down the prayer points should send to me via direct message or email.

Summary of message in my own words:

Deliverance is required when you need a mind shift from marrying the worldly way to marrying the WORD or Holy Spirit led way. Things to consider as you seek deliverance from the root of delay

1. Learn to appreciate you. Know that you are wonderfully made. This is when deliverance will be easy.

2. Find out or research about generational curse within your family

3. Be mindful of self inflicted reasons... the 'I cannot' and 'I will not' in your life.

4. Be sure you are not operating under the shackles of your parents marriage or pop (popular) culture.

5. Renounce your old ways. I add to this, have you renounced covenants or contracts. These could delay or derail you. We touched on this in our first meeting. It is one thing to legally divorce, it is another to spiritually renounce, mentally divorce and physically let go

6. Is fear factor at work. "My parents marriage did not work, may be mine will not work", such statement is satanically induced. I add that the Bible has 366 fear not with provision for the leap year!

7. The one that blew me away in how it was captured, DOCTRINE OF THE WORLD! One big one she mentioned is thise who insist, "I cannot marry a divorcee". Let me add this: The Bible condemn divorce but there is therefore no condemnation for anyone who is in Christ Jesus! The time of ignorance God overlooked.

During the Q and A session, a sister asked a question that led me to add the following while nothing that the root of delay under self is inexhaustible.

I asked those at the first meeting to individually seek God's face to know the root of your own delay.

I shared in our 16.03.2024 meeting that there are 3 major roots of delay that all others causes can come under

1. God

2. Curse

3. Self. To help men and women with self is why DC exist.

Pastor Abidoye's message extended the borders of the root of delay. In light of this, let me share my response to the question asked:

1. Be reminded that God can delay you. Ruth's delay led her to be positioned in Jesus' lineage. God can delay you for destiny fulfilment or because of disobedience. God asked Abraham to separate himself from Lot and Abraham did as he wanted. How many years did God refuse to speak to him after

2. Grief. Some have not healed from loss. Loss of a loved one, of a promising relationship, of job or property, even loss of location etc. This grief could be visible in your moodiness or irrational mood swing. This could make someone attracted to you worried.

3. Complacency and belief that marriage will happen when it will happen. In being hopeful and expectant, the unmarried is to commit to making marriage a priority.

In prioritising marriage, I shared the dangerous prayers I prayed and warned for us to be mindful of what we pray for.

Let me add other delay factors

4. Disobedience. Yes I put it under God but it can stand alone. God showed you your man or woman but you said no I don't want him or her.

5. Lack of the culture of giving. The woman who connected my husband and I did because we were givers. She met us individually and our culture of giving led her to be awakened to our similarities

6. Lack of virtues. See the lessons in Genesis 17 - Unholiness, unfaithfulness, hopelessness, filthy essay, ingratitude, sadness and disobedience must be uprooted from you life. The world is moody; sadness is rife; joy is attractive.

7. Lack of purpose. Everyone who was connected in the Bible was on the journey called purpose. It was in running with my calling and purpose that my man became connected to me. I remanded the purpose and vision for 9-10 years. I didn't realise that I merely delayed myself.

8. Pride is a big root of delay under self. I reached a sister about connecting her and her mind pridefully shut down so much so she didn't remember to greet. Rather than say thank you, let God's will be done, satan sent her into demotive lamentation, "So my condition has now reached for me to be offered divorcee and widower!" This is pride. No matter who God leads you to, your prayer should be let me be, Lord let your will be done in my life and let me through this friendship be able to fulfil purpose and find peace and bliss.

Please feel free to share your comments and concerns.

Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others. Pastor Adenike Abidoye is a Public Health Concern who is passionate about deliverance.

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