Tuesday, 21 October 2025

Delay or Divine Timing by Coach Pearl Kanu

Indeed we must NOT lose heart while we wait. I just shared with Bola Omoteso's friend about delay in the path of a chaplaincy role I seek. The delay has given me an opportunity to spiritually and mentally prepare for the federal role. I have come to understand that delay is NOT denial and God's silence never equates to His absence. I share with you this sermonette by Coach Pearl Kanu.

He has made ever. God God made everything beautiful in its time. Also, He has put eternity in their hearts, except that no one can find out the work that God does from beginning to end. — Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NKJV)

Today’s Word:

There are seasons when God’s plan seems hidden and His timing feels slow. We pray, prepare, and do what we know to do, yet the results don’t come as quickly as we hoped. It’s easy to wonder if God has forgotten, but the truth is, He’s working behind the scenes in ways we can’t yet see.
When something hasn’t happened yet, it’s not a delay — it’s divine timing. God is aligning the right opportunities, the right people, and the right moment to bring beauty out of what feels uncertain. Waiting is never wasted when our hearts remain faithful.
Just as a seed grows beneath the soil before breaking through the surface, God is cultivating something within us. We must not lose heart while we wait. Let us stay faithful, stay expectant, and keep our peace. At the right time, what He has prepared will come into view — and it will be beautiful.

Prayer:
Father, thank You that everything You do is perfectly timed. Even when we don’t see the whole picture, we trust that You are working for our good. Help us to stay patient and peaceful in the waiting. Holy Spirit, teach us to do away with thoughts that are not from You and to rest in Your plan. We are grateful that what You have begun, You will bring to completion, in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

Thanks for sharing Coach Pearl Kanu!
Mrs. Pearl Kanu is a globally certified coach and member of #GracefulWomenMinistry.

Thursday, 16 October 2025

Where Are You In Your Spiritual Journey

Where Are You In Your Spiritual Journey




One of our ministers prayed a prayer for me without knowing I was in the midst of storm. She said - The Lord will surely settle ytou in your Canaan land in Jesus name. 

I was going to respond Amen o, let God settle me in my Goshen. But immediately the Holy Spirit said why Goshen. I said Goshen is the name you gave me for our cooperative society through which we give low interest loans to widows. God was silent after my rejoiner so I went to do research. 

The time was 5.50AM and I was actively awake so I researched about Canaan then God led me to research the difference between Goshen, Canaan and Beulah. 

I will share with you so you add understanding to your understanding when praying for shelter, stability, sustainance, peace and/or comfort. 

Let us pray:
Heavenly Lord, thank you for your grace. Thank you for the spiritual journey we are on and for leading us towards your peace and your presence. In John we are reminded that in you is life and your life is the light for humanity. Open our minds beyond what I will share. Let y o ur name be glorified in our spiritual journey in Jesus majestic name.

I thank you for being part of our community. I pray your mind is blessed as you read. Be sure to subscribe and leave a message.

Goshen, Canaan or Beulah are incomparable in a straightforward sense but I will share each with you and you will decide what to pray for depending on where you are in the journey of life and your level of faith. 

As I researched, I was reminded that the name God gave me for our cooperative society and store is Goshen. My discoveries almost made me decide to change the name but the Holy Spirit confirmed why Goshen was appropriate, we are a place of temporary refuge. Borrowing money is to get you through a phase which we never hope will be permanent. Shopping in a mid-level store is for a season... We have quality items but we do NOT claim they are gugh end. Our hope is that you can afford the Tumis and Feragamoss but always be in prayers for the high end stores you shop at, if you shot at any, because many of them have at their root abuse of the less privileged to maximise profit. 

If you know a high end store that support missions without abusing the poor, and pay workers well, that is where you should shop. Or even quality stores that sell things at average rate to benefit those in rural areas, shop there to put a smile on someone's face. 

So back to Goshen, Canaan and Beulah - They represent distinct biblical and theological concepts at different stages of the spiritual journey. They serve different purposes and symbolise different aspects of a believer's walk with God.  

What does each represent. Let us begin with Goshen. Can you tell me what or where Goshen is in the Scriptures? 

Goshen 

Goshen is a place of temporary protection. In the Book of Genesis, Goshen was the fertile land in Egypt where the Pharaoh allowed Joseph's family to settle during a famine. A fierce king allowed a man scorned and enslaved by his own siblings to settle in a place that served peace. That may look like what you need right now. 

Goshen will serve you: 

Immunity amid worldly systems. During the plagues that God sent to Egypt, Goshen was divinely protected. The Israelites living there were spared from the devastation that fell upon the Egyptians. Some of you may need to temporarily withdraw to a Goshen God will lead you to. It could be a Christian retreat centre, a place in the village or out of the country where your body, soul and spirit will kick in the peace your mind needs. 

Goshen 

Good, but not the final destination. The land of Goshen was a temporary blessing and a transitional point. How many people are going through transition right now. Transitions is a workshop we did with Coach Pearl that was a blessing so much so I plan to publish a book on transitions... I trust she and I can do that together. 

At some point God led me to live with someone; it was Goshen. When it was time to move the Holy Spirit alerted me but I rationalise how I could be a blessing by helping the owner but things turned sour. Goshen is a place of temporary respite... 

In Goshen the Israelites grew comfortable but that was NOT the final destination. In Goshen Joseph settled his family while he was Prime Minister but that was not the final destination. In Goshen there was no famine but that was not God's final destination for His most loved children. God's ultimate plan was to move them to a better place; the Promised Land.  

Canaanland 

Let us talk about Canaan. Who can say something about Canaanland, not the one in Otta founded by Bishop Oyedepo but the one in the Bible. 

Canaan is a region of significant biblical history associated with the promise by God. 

Canaan 

• The promised destination. Canaan, or Canaanland, is the "Promised Land" that God swore to give to Abraham and his descendants. What has God promised you? That He will give you a future and a hope - Jeremiah 29:11. What has God promised you? That you are NOT condemned. What has God promised you. That a thousand may fall by your left side and two thousand by your right side but no tragedy will come to you. Are you in your Canaanland physically or spiritually? 

As beautiful as Canaan was, there was strife and contention so Canaan equates to:

• A life of spiritual warfare and blessing. Some theologians interpret Canaan as a symbol of the abundant Christian life, which, unlike heaven, requires continuous effort and spiritual battle against sin. The Israelites had to fight to conquer and claim their inheritance, illustrating that believers must also fight to experience some blessings in Christ. 

Yes God is our peace but does that mean satan will let you be. When demons want to make you angry or stir up depression you must say get thee behind me satan (Matthew 16:23). When anyone wants to infect or inject your children with vices you stand and fight because our arms are strengthened for war to claim our inheritance. Or you can use the jeje approach by handing over the child to God for full coverage. Remember that the same Bible that says our arms are strengthened for war also says the battle is of the Lord. So spiritual discernment is important. My oga at TQC (The Quadrant Company) will always say, pick your battle! 

Canaan was 

• The fulfillment of God's promise. This land represents the inheritance and the purpose for which God saved His people to bring us to a good end - Jeremiah 29:11 and Philippians 1:6 which offers confidence that God who began a "good work" will complete it "until the day of Jesus Christ".  

Canaan is a promised place of rest but Christian are caution to seek NOT yet repose 

Hymn:

Christian, seek not yet repose
Hear thy gracious Savior say
Thou art in the midst of foes
Watch and pray

Kristian, ma ti ’wa ’simi
Gbo b’Angeli re ti n'wi
Ni aarin ota l’o wa
Maa sora

Beulah 

Beulah (Hebrew: בְּעוּלָ֑ה, romanised: bə‘ulā) means "married" and applies to the land the Israelites will obtain or Israelites will be joined to. 

Israel is a nation that has been at war yet in the Bible we are enjoined to pray for Israel. Some may already be tired due to the recurrent war.

• Psalm 122:6: "Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: 'May they be secure who love you'".  

• Psalm 122:7: "May there be peace within your walls and security within your towers.

These prayers are for everyone who wants to claim God's promises for His children. 

The land of Beulah is referred to in various hymns and other works. It is 

• A state of final peace. In John Bunyan's Christian allegory, The Pilgrim's Progress, Beulah is a land of peace and rest that pilgrims pass through just before entering the Celestial City (heaven). 

• The bride of Christ. The name "Beulah" means "married" in Hebrew, and it is used in Isaiah 62:4 to signify the restored relationship between God and His people. 

Are you at this destination where your restored relationship grants you peace and you can sing joyfully: 

In your presence, I am content 
In Your presence I am content
In Your presence I am content 
In Your presence there is light
Expressions of Your life
Revelations of Your power and might 
In Your presence I can bring
My love song offering
I'm in the presence of my King 

Beulah is
• The ultimate destination. Beulah represents the final, intimate union with God. The question is, is this mentally, emotionally, socially, spiritually or physically.

Unlike Canaan, it is not a place of conflict but one of joyful union and peace, representing the final stage of the believer's journey.  

Which of these 3 beautiful lands are you in, i  your journey of life. How can we experience Goshen, Canaan or Beulah here on earth?

A 96 year old woman I had cause to care for said to me, do you say your prayers, I said yes. She said, pray to your God to take me! Before then she said, I think I am too good for hell and not good enough for heaven, so here I sit!

This woman is NOT a believer but I enter her home and I learn so much from the way she has simplified her life. One of these days I will preach on the power of a simplicitly, surrender etc.

I tried to give her variety but she is content with a breakfast of cornflakes, half banana (not full) and milk; no sugar, sacarine or honey. Lunch of toast plus cheese with or without mayonnaise or butter. A dinner of soup or salad. Whatever extra I give to her, she accepts with utmost contentment, zero complaint and gratitude.

During a storm of life, all I could wear were my pin earrings with or without simple bracelet. I also had just a set of underwear which I kept clean by washing at night, 2 pairs of shoes... I have cases and cases of clothes and jewelleries but in a state of storm what mattered was my focus on God and I had absolute clarity of mind. 

Brethren, where are you in the spiritual journey of life?

I shared 2 projects we need to embark on - 1. Graceful Living where we trust God for provision and 2. Decluttering where we give out what we have no need of or have not used in years. I will share the third in one of our next meetings but today I want you to bow down and meditate over your life. 

Are there things you would want no one to see if you die today. Are there things that would become a problem or burden to others. Are you owing people so much so it appears like the heaven is closed. Is there a secret that can cause you shame that you need to let go off to enter into Goshen, Canaan or Beulah. 

Please talk to God about it and take action to clear out the junk that can derail or debar your blessings or snuff out your peace.

Let me conclude by saying that the sequence I used shows the progression of the believer's life in Christian theology: 

• Goshen: The beginning of the spiritual journey, a place of safety and provision in the world. But know when to leave because it is a temporary location.

• Canaanland: The stage of experiencing spiritual blessings and battles as a result of faith. Your faith will make people contend with you so never label leaders who seems to be in constant battle as contentious. Abraham kept digging wells and Philistines kept causing strife and contention. He never ended the battle so Isaac faced the same until the final well that put a stop to strife; which he named Rehoboth in Genesis 26:22 after the Philistines no longer quarreled with him over it. As long as Philistines are around you, there will be contention. 

• Beulah: The final state of rest, intimacy, and union with God, just before or in heaven.  

Where are you in your spiritual journey. 

Ask God to restore and upgrade your relationship with Him. Ask God to draw you closer to Himself... 

Song:
Draw me close to you
Never let me go
I lay it all down again
To hear you say that I'm your friend
You are my desire
No one else will do
'Cause nothing else can take your place
To feel the warmth of your embrace
Help me find the way
Bring me back to you 

Chorus
You're all I want
You're all I've ever needed
You're all I want
Help me know you are near

In Conclusion 

One thing to remember is that whether we are walking towards or in Goshen, Canaan or Beulah, God is calling us to be at peace with His presence, Holy Spirit, in us. 

Though the Bible warns against false ease founded on pride, carelessness and complacency, we are called to be at ease and peace in the journey of life as God the storm stiller takes us to the next destination. Proverbs 1:33, Psalm 25:13 

Jesus was at ease during a visible storm. When he was called to wakefulness, He did NOT begin to pray or praise, He proclaimed. He commanded the storm to be still. Mark 4:35–41 

As God's daughter or son, we can do the same to every storm we face and ensure that no one takes away the peace God has given us.


Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others.

Sunday, 12 October 2025

Wealth Master Class



Since God opened my eyes to how to create wealth in 2009, I have positioned myself uniquely and helped many to do the same. I #createsmiles through the wealth God helps me to create.

I am grateful to the leaders at ALCC, our spiritual leaders at PTNMA Pastor Festus and Pastor Anthonia Adeyeye for adding a wealth creation master class to the 2024 convention. As Pastor Festus left the altar, I went to greet him and he poured out prayers for me. I felt like I got the best portion of the 2025 convention!

The couple has been a blessing to me and I recommend ALCC, my new home church when you are in Brooklyn.

I am grateful to Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo for accepting to facilitate the class free of charge.

For all who were present this class had a cost. The organisers must have had to take care of the cost of having their mentor, Pastor Matthew in Brooklyn. On my part, I had to fund my trip to Brooklyn and sowed a seed. 

I am sharing not only what I heard but what the Holy Spirit laid in my mind as well as information from research I did.

It would have taken me many more days but in the spirit of scaling up and to deliver something excellent to my beloved Christian sister who requested my note, I have gone through extra mile to edit and share.

Note that my note may not follow the sequence because at some point my phone died and I had to take note on my napkin. PMA also rushed through the class just to ensure he maximised our participation ahead of going for an investors meeting.

Let me plug in that he teaches wealth creation and anyone who desires more can research how to join his class. He also has an estate you can invest in. 

Here begins my note:

Pastor Ashimolowo has been pastoring for 51 years. In addition to being a pastor he teaches about Generational Wealth Creation and that Covenant Prosperity is a right. God gives according to ability and capacity not popularity. He argues that no one should feel guilt about teaching about wealth. 

A leader once asserts that if it is Biblical and Fundamental, teach it! It is a covenant for us to be wealthy. 

The following are covenants he mentioned. Click link to read more based on my research: 

1. Edenic/Adamic 

2. Noahic 

3. Abrahamic Genesis 13... as far as your eyes can see 

4. Palestinian (Israel) 

5. Mosaic 

6. New 

Everytime God enters covenant with humans, he gives land. That is the real estate! 

Lord Jesus, I received property as part of my covenant of marriage. Lord return my landed property or give me new covenant and land in America! 

When God enters into covenant with humanity, He prospers the people. 

There are more words on finance than there are than any other subject in the Bible. Pastor Matthew is the only one who has come up with a Prayer Bible. 

500 - direct or indirect (unsure what this is) 

150-200 - home 

2215 - finance (Biblical Economics) 

37 and 23 parables has to do with economics 

Few parable about finance: 

1. Sower (Jews look for the codes) 

2. Children in a marketplace 
Change from the level of children 

3. Talent (gold bar federal reserve, half a million dollars) 

Aliko Dangote was given half a million dollars by the Dantata family who has produced 4 generations of wealthy folks. This is the only family on Nigeria who can be credited with this achievement. 


Christians must rewrite that history 

Luke 15 has three stories about finance 

Lost silver - dowry 

Lost sheep - left capital to look for profit 

Lost son - want inheritance; he demanded it because he felt entitled. It appears we are still raising more children like this directly or indirectly; which is why I believe Matthew Ashimolowo put the investment for grandchildren in trust rather than hand it over to them or their parents. 

The show after is celebration 

Be Thankful 

Be Expectant


God wants us to prosper... Above all things be prosperous. 

Many quote this verse and Pastor did too but it was Apostle John expressing his hearty prayer for Gaius: 

3 John 1:2 NKJV
Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers 

Ut is important to understand the protocol so you do not extricate self and finance 

Christianity is a lifestyle in a kingdom and I am a major player and stakeholder 

1. It is a kingdom with protocols
- Pay your tax or tithes (bring what is not yours; Jesus paid tax)
- Do charity or sacrifice (at 17 Solomon slaughtered 1000 bulls instead of 1)
- Release seed to increase (Jesus was released for Triune glory to increase) 

2. Give in joy, thanksgiving and reverence
Your dollars stays in ALCC (or your ministry) but the attitude ascends to heaven. The honour goes up and blessings come down 

3. Create Generational Wealth 

Psalm 112:1-4
Announce to the righteous it shall be well with you 

Many complain "I can't get the right job." 

News Flash: You cannot create wealth through a job. 

JOB = Just Over Broke 

You create wealth by solving problems. 

Find your passion and SELL SOMETHING (this is why I partnered to publish Selling Skills) 

5. Break the poverty mindset 

Poverty does not glorify God. Poverty does not bring blessing. You are limited by what you can do if you stay in the well of lack. 

Poverty mindset contradicts "God gives us all things richly to enjoy". Hence it is important to consider the following: 

● Solve Problems
Elon Musk is valued at over $500b. He solved the problem. 

From my research, I discovered that the initial problem Elon Musk solved was helping local businesses establish an online presence with maps and directions, essentially an online version of the Yellow Pages. This was the purpose of his first company, Zip2. 

● Correct your mindset; wealth is a blessing not a burden 

Cells: 
The adult human body contains an estimated 30 to 40 trillion human cells, with one study citing an average of 37.2 trillion. This number varies based on factors like sex, age, and body size.  

Follicles:
The human body has approximately 5 million hair follicles. This number can vary slightly depending on factors such as age, gender, and hair color. The head has around 100,000 hair follicles. The remaining 4 million hair follicles are distributed throughout the body, including the eyebrows, eyelashes, arms, legs, and chest. 


Cones:
The human eye contains approximately 6 million cone cells. These cones are photoreceptor cells responsible for color vision and are concentrated in the central part of the retina, known as the fovea. The exact number of cones may vary slightly from person to person.  

Intestine:
The human body has an average of approximately 20 to 25 feet of intestine, with the small intestine being the longest at about 20 to 22 feet, and the large intestine (colon) being the remaining 5 feet. The small intestine is responsible for most digestion and nutrient absorption, while the large intestine absorbs water and electrolytes.  

Above shows us we serve a God of ABUNDANCE. 


Pillars for Generational Wealth 

1. Embrace an abundance mentality 

2. Positive money beliefs 

3. Adopt a growth mindset 

4. Develop a longterm perspective 

5. Take personal responsibility 


Your attitude not your aptitude determines your altitude. 

3. Insights for Perpetual Wealth 

Blessed shall I be in the city 

Deuteronomy 28:5-12 

Work of my hands - earnings from selling your hours. 

In wealth creation, you determine the value of your hours. No one really pays you how much you feel you are worth in employment or on a job. 

Classification of businesses 

■ Basket - start up business with perforation or risks 

■ Storehouse - 50 staff or more.


40% of British wealth is in the hands of Indians. 300 years later only 4% of American wealth is in the hands of African 

Categories 

Employees 

Self Employed 

Business 

Investor - The enjoy the product snd pofit and 

4. Stop wasting financial resources. Waste cannot lead to wealth... create multiple streams of wealth. Running from job to job is not multiple stream but multiple struggle 

Franchise and Scaling is important. This is how companies like McDonald's and KFC grew wealth 

My instruction from God at the beginning of this year is "Scale Up!" It May juat be time. 

Until you scale, you struggle 

Anything you do and you have to be present to make or monitor income, you don't have a business you have self employment. 

5. Create wealth that will last in the family 

Have your sons and daughters in mind 

At 27 from sale of musical instruments 
Matthew Ashimolowo studied in Canada and then began to buy land. 

Never build in your village because the value may never increase. 

Wreck it or take it. You can only move with the light available to you 

ROI not ROE 

Return On Investment 

Return On Ego / Emotion 

In 1986 two men were given 25 Million  Naira, Nigerian currency 

One built a massive house - Now ugly
One started a bank - Now worth 200 Billion Dollars 

Listed top on NYSE today are: 

1. Musk 

2. Meta 

3. Microsoft


Consider not putting money in savings account which is actually shavings account 

Rather reach a broker to learn more about options which include S and P 500 which works and returns 14% yearly. 

Algorithms: 8 - 4 - 3 

Double after 8 year 

Teipple or quadruple after 4 years 

Last 3 years increase is in geometric proportion 

Inflation is now 3.4 and Savings is 3-4% hence there is really no profit from saving in the bank instead as d they use your capital to grow their business. 

Discipline myself and curb expensive spending. I have done this... I have NOT done any major shopping for food in months because I brought things from Nigeria and learned from CG to restrict my diet to simple things 

Breakfast
Buscuit, custard, oat 

Lunch
Rice, eba, bread, pasta with vegetable, stew or soup 

Dinner
Snack, Salad or Soup 

Find the right broker 

Facebook shares sold at 18$ but now sells for $700 per shares. The person who owns Facebook now owns whatsapp and instagram 

For investing 30,000 in brokerage in UK and leaving it for 6 years and 18 years for which he wants to knock himself, he now has £186,000 and was able to draw £50,000. 

In the Bible (Genesis 2), a single river flows out of the Garden of Eden and then divides into four distinct rivers: the Pishon, the Gihon, the Tigris (Hiddekel), and the Euphrates. These are the four branches that emerge from the original river, not one river that breaks into four separate entities. PMA categorised them as slow, okay, rapid and breakthrough 

I researched to know more: 

The Four Rivers of Eden 

• Pishon: Described as flowing around the land of Havilah, which is noted for its gold, bdellium, and onyx stone. BREAKTHROUGH 

• Gihon: This river flows around the entire land of Cush. RAPID 

• Hiddekel (Tigris) : The third river, flowing east of Assyria. OKAY 

• Euphrates: The fourth river, a well-known river of the Middle East. SLOW 

Biggest investors in Nigeria Stock Exchange are those from NYSE. 

It is important to discover passive cash flow by starting a business. I am considering the following: 

1. Sale of cookware 

2. Sale of IUL insurance 

3. Publishing 

4. Counselling 

5. Mentoring/Coaching 

6. Farming 

7. Rental (airbnb) 

8. Conferencing 

9. Event Planning/Coordination 

10. Goshen Stores and Cooperative 

ZZZZZZZXXZZZZZXXXXXZ 

6. Protect wealth 

Buy things for my grandchildren 

Buy a place to let out... 

Real estate is the only real estate 

PMA gave each of his children house at their wedding and bought 22 properties for his grandchildren. He promised to educate them to master level. Rather than give it to them and risk it getting into their heads he put into a trust he started. They get the profit. 

From the loss I experienced from probate, I already know trusteeship is great and wl buy my property under a trust. 

He decided not to repeat the error of his father who was a compulsive gambler 

Classes: 

Wealthy - Note that the wealthy never show their wealth. 

The rich 

The middle class 

The poor 

Having a million does not make you a millionaire. To be a millionaire you must be able to turnover the millions. 

Xxxx 

Everytime God blesses anyone, He gives land. 

Wall Street was previously the boundary but real estate made it the epicentre. Demographic changes the power of land. Is this true. Read my findings below. 

Wall Street was indeed previously the boundary or border of New Amsterdam, the Dutch colony that later became New York City. In 1653, the Dutch built a wall along the northern boundary of their settlement to protect against potential attacks from Native Americans, pirates, and the British. This wall gave Wall Street its name and marked the edge of the colony. 

The wall was constructed under the orders of Peter Stuyvesant, the Director-General of New Netherland, and was built using the labor of both enslaved Africans and white colonists. The wall started at the East River shoreline, crossed Broadway, and ended at the Hudson River shoreline. Over time, the wall was torn down, but the street that ran along it retained the name "Wall Street". 

So, while Wall Street is now a hub of financial activity, its origins are rooted in the colonial history of New York City as a defensive barrier. 

Wall Street was previously the boundary but real estate made it the epicentre. Demographic changes the power of land. Is this true 

Wall Street's transformation from the boundary to the epicenter of New York City can indeed be attributed to real estate and demographic changes, which have significantly impacted the power dynamics of land in the area. 

Historically, Wall Street was a hub for financial markets and institutions, but its influence expanded as the financial sector grew. Real estate development played a crucial role in this transformation, with the area becoming a hub for high-end offices, residences, and amenities . 

Demographic changes, such as the influx of young professionals and affluent residents, have driven gentrification and reshaped neighborhoods surrounding Wall Street. This shift has led to increased demand for housing, upscale amenities, and services, further solidifying the area's status as a hub of economic and social activity. 

The value of land in Manhattan, particularly around Wall Street, is among the highest in the world. An acre of central land in New York City is worth approximately 72 times more than an equivalent acre in cities like Atlanta or Pittsburgh. This disparity highlights the significant economic and spatial inequality in the United States, with New York City accounting for around 10% of the total value of America's urban land.² 

In summary, the combination of real estate development, demographic changes, and the financial sector's growth has transformed Wall Street into a thriving epicenter of economic activity, underscoring the power of land in shaping urban dynamics. 

Remember that real estate is the only estate that is real and can increase in value. 

If you are yet to buy land... consider doing so. 

Xxxx 

7. Make all businesses legal. Don't evade tax but avoid tax... He didn't say how but one way is through welfare or charity programmes, projects and initiatives 

8. Consider real estate 

57m in 3 years now 150m 

33m in 3 years now 97m 

This is the only estate that is real. 

Bought 900 acres 

First 30 for less than 1M... everything for about 500m because some had to be rebought 

160 plots left and sold each at 15m 

40m per acre which has 6 plots 

And resold at 90m 

9. Protect your wealth/heritage 

10. Build lasting relationship 

11. Have a will to state what you WILL WANT. If you don't, America has written one for you. Inheritance tax can take 25% of your inheritance or steal everything as it happened to me. 

12  Leave a legacy... I rephrase thus as build a lasting legacy


Abike or Anne's Excel Wealth Academy 

Wealth Creation 

There are three types of people 

1. Side walker - one step from disaster 

2. Slow lane driver 

3. Fast lane drivers 

Know that you cannot survive on 401k 

1. Side Walker 

Primary Income = Job 

Money = Salary 

Time = Spend today, tomorrow is not promised 

Destination = None 

2. Slow Lane Driver 

Primary Income = Fortune 500 

Money = Savings 

Time = Trade it for money or material 

Destination = Comfortable retirement 

Many are in the slow lane driver category 


3. Fast lane driver 

Primary Income = Business or Investment (Mono or Multiple streams) 

Money = Wealth Creation 

Time = Value (those in this category are able to put a price tag on their time) 

Destination = Create passive wealth 

Consider this on how to distribute income, based on whether housing is free, rented or paid off 

60% - Investment 

20% - Living 

10% - Tithe 

10% - Offering 

Or 

50% - Investment 

30% - Living 

10% - Tithe 

10% - Offering 

To take care of 7 years if famine save feed or seed for the future. 

To take care of 7 years of famine what was done in the Bible 

To prepare for the seven years of famine, the biblical account in Genesis describes a plan implemented by Joseph, who advised Pharaoh to store up surplus grain during the preceding seven years of abundant harvest.  

Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo and his wife now live on 1/2 acre of property with 5 rooms 

Omolola, don't wait till the system is right or justice us served, start now and grow.


As I listened to him, I came up with the acronym below for BUSINESS 

Build
Understand Unique
Solve
Invest Insure
Network
Excel
Save
Serve 

Other common and useful business acronyms include: 

SMART 

Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-bound 

Goal-setting framework to ensure objectives are well-defined and achievable. 

SWOT 

Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats 

A strategic planning tool to assess a company's competitive position. 

ROI 

Return on Investment 

A performance measure used to evaluate the efficiency or profitability of an investment



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Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others.

Wednesday, 8 October 2025

Called Into Fellowship


Praise 

Amazing love how can can it be
That you my LORD would die for me
Amazing love how can can it be
That you my LORD would die for me 

Sermon: 

Genesis 1:27 reminds us that we are created in God's image, and as such, we have a covenant with Him. This covenant is a call to rule (Genesis) and reign (Revelation) rooted in fellowship with God, which precedes our relationship with others. 

Genesis 5:2 records that God's intentional act of creation, brought male and female into existence. This is a fundamental aspect of God's divine design. God called them mankind or humankind to signify shared identity and unity of the human race, linking all people to this foundational creation event.  

When God rested after creation, it was neber because He was tired; He rested because He was done. Before we take a vacation or step back, we must ask ourselves: Are we done with our assignment for this season? 

In Genesis, we see Adam and Eve, created in God's image, equal in God's eyes (Romans 8:17). Adam and Eve were incomplete without each other; they needed to work together to fulfil the task of sustaining the Garden of Eden. 

Their relationship was built on mutual love, respect, and care. Ephesians 5:33 reminds us to love and respect one another. 

The commentary by John Skinner highlights Eve's equality to Adam, emphasising partnership over subservience. Subserviency may be cultural but not scriptural. It is best for Christians to stick with the Christlile culture and norm we know and understand than to dabble into tribal cultures. 

The term helpmeet is an image of God's covenant relationship with humanity. In Psalm 54:4, God is our helper, and in Psalm 46:1, our refuge and strength. 

The term "helpmeet" originates from Genesis 2:18, where God says, "I will make a helper suitable for him" (Adam). The Hebrew word "ezer" (help) conveys a sense of strength, support, and partnership. 

In the context of God's relationship with humanity, "helpmeet" symbolises: 

1. Covenant Partnership: 
God's desire for a mutual, loving relationship with humanity. 

2. Support and Strength:
God provides guidance, protection, and empowerment. 

3. Intimacy and Companionship: 
A deep, personal connection, as seen in God's relationship with Adam and Eve. 

This concept highlights God's relational nature, emphasising His willingness to engage with humanity in a meaningful, supportive way. 

Adam and Eve's story shows us that we are incomplete without each other. We need each other to fulfill God's mission and commission. And we must remain in community to safeguard sacred mission. 

When a chicken gets out of the fold, the wolf attacks it as food. Satan lurks waiting for us to be separated from the family of Christ God put us in. When we stray from the flock, Satan attack. 

Bind us together with cords that cannot be broken is a song of unity and support that we must exemplify. We need each other to do the commission and mission of faith. 

As we reflect on our relationships and assignments, it is important to prioritise fellowship with God and with each other. 

Remember that when Jesus was done with His earthly assignment, He returned into fellowship with the Trinity.

Are we done with our tasks? 

While we are committedly working on our task, are we walking in unity and love? 

Key Points: 

1. Fellowship with God precedes human relationships. 

2. Male and female are equal in God's eyes. 

3. Mutual love and respect are essential for the success of relationships. 

4. Unity and support are crucial for fulfilling God's mission. 

Action Step 

1. Reflect on your relationships and assignments. 

2. Prioritise fellowship with God and unity with others. 

3. Love and respect those around you. 


Closing Prayer 

Heavenly Father, help couples to rest in your presence, knowing we are done in your eyes when we have fulfilled our assignments. Strengthen our bond with each other, help us to submit one to another and guide us in your mission for us here on earth. Amen.


Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others.

Saturday, 9 August 2025

Spare the Rod?

Spare the Rod? A Biblical Counsellor’s View on Discipline & Consequences




The manual I use for counselling is the Bible; this is why I am a Biblical Counsellor. The counsel I share is Bible based. 

I want us to be clear that age appropriate spanking has its benefit.

I also want us to be clear that spanking for a child and spanking for an adult is viewed differently. 

By the age of 18, a child is expected to have learned how to be appropriately responsive and responsible. Unfortunately the law seldom take cognisanse that some are slower than others. It is only considered when there is a diagnosis.

While the west condemns spanking in its entirety, we see the use of spanking in law... For example, if there was no consequence for speeding, many will go 100 miles per hour. The ticket is a warning; one of ways the law spank adults. Depending on miles over, the degree of spanking or ticket varies.

In the children I have directly nurtured, I may have spanked only once or twice and it served as an immediate and long term deterrent. That it instills fear or leads to reverence has a positive and negative side to it, depending on how the child has been raised or nurtured.

Proverbs 23:13-14  

Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die. If you strike him with the rod, you will save his soul from Sheol. 

I know peers I went to high school with who reiterated again and again that the rod saved them from jail. 

MAMI told us of her principal who would always so that now you can see the person spanking you but if you don't take to the corrections, life will spank you in future and thr effect will be worse because there will be no one to beg for mercy.

Ephesians 6:4  

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 

Discipline here could mean discipleship and it could mean consequential action which could be spanking

Proverbs 13:24  

Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him. 

This is calling us to purposeful parenting rather than pampering that can lead a child astray.

Proverbs 29:15  

The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. 

Why the mother? Humans have tilted the culture into patriarchy hence a mother is blamed and shamed if a child is out of character.

Colossians 3:21 

Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.

Excessive spanking can provoke to anger, retaliation and to the extent of suicide because a child frequently beaten will feel unloved) 

Proverbs 22:6 

Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. 

Did you notice that it is recorded as "a child", not "your child". Every child must be nurtured in righteousness.

Proverbs 19:18  

Discipline your son, for there is hope; do not set your heart on putting him to death.

A child who lives without consequence is being prepared for death - spiritual, judicial or natural.

Proverbs 22:15 

Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him. 

Satan and demons harden the hearts of some children. The rod aligns them with consequences and serves as deterrent.

Proverbs 29:17  

Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will give delight to your heart. 

The rest is futuristic. Do the work now and rest in time to come when your child grows into a responsible adult.

Proverbs 20:30 

Blows that wound cleanse away evil; strokes make clean the innermost parts. 

Proverbs 13:1  

A wise son hears his father's instruction, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke. 

ELA today is on listening... we can train children to listen and this will mitigate spanking or scoffing at both ends respectively.

Ephesians 6:1-4 

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honour your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 

Ephesians 6:1  

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 

When we obey God we avoid consequences of sin, same with when our children obey us.

Hebrews 12:3-11 

Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 

This shows the importance of explaining why we spank or other consequences to our children. Spanking not backed by communication would be ill received after a while. This is why an adage in Yoruba says ti a ba fi owo osi ba omo wi, a fi owo otun fa mo'ra. When we use the left hand to scold a child, we will use the right hand to pull the child close into an embrace.

Deuteronomy 21:18-21 

“If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and, though they discipline him, will not listen to them, then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city at the gate of the place where he lives, and they shall say to the elders of his city, ‘This our son is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.’ Then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. So you shall purge the evil from your midst, and all Israel shall hear, and fear. 

This is extreme and will never be our portion. This is why Jesus paid the capital price but we cannot continue to sin and ask that grace abound.

Hebrews 12:11 

For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. (

As mentioned earlier, I have old school mates who boldly say that if they had not been caned or spanked they would have ended up in jail or dead; they were quite rotten but the fear of cane became the beginning of wisdom.

Galatians 6:1 

Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. 

This is what I shared on Sunday... the community of believers should rally round not steer or scorn those living in rebellion.

Hebrews 12:9 

Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? 

My mother spoke of her principal who would always so I am canning you now and you can see me, beg me or try to hold the cane or rod because of the pain. But the time is coming when you may not see what is beating you if you refuse to change... What are those things that can beat us in life - shame, depression, ostracisement even poverty.

Colossians 3:20 

Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 

This refers to parents who align with God.

Hebrews 12:6-7 

For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 

Your children need this explanation. Let them know discipline is essential if you love them and want them to succeed.

Matthew 18:6  

But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea. 

This is reverse discipline for us as parents IF we fail in our calling or career.

Ecclesiastes 8:11  

Because the sentence against an evil deed is not executed speedily, the heart of the children of man is fully set to do evil. 

This refers to speed... we touched on it. There is a legal difference between then and now but we trust God to close the gap with deliverance and healing.

We will explore other verses later.

Meanwhile list 1-5 action you will take and report when you take them and outcome. No need to rush them just be intentional.



Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others.