Encouraging Others

Write out a story reflecting on how you encourage others to do the right thing. 

As project coordinator, chaplain and counselor, I have had the privilege of walking alongside individuals and guiding them toward doing the right thing. One particular instance that stands out was with a staff member who was responsible for organizing our food giveaway for widows in need. 

Initially, she proposed a list of only carbohydrates, reasoning that "beggars have no choice... so they should be grateful." I sensed her heart was in the right place, but her approach needed refinement. 

I took her aside, and asked her questions that made me realise she believed the hard stuff is what they need. We had a conversation about the importance of respect in our service to others. 

I shared stories of individuals who had faced hardship and how a simple act of kindness can restore hope. I encouraged her to put herself in the shoes of those receiving the food and ask, "What would I want for myself or my loved ones in this situation?" 

After our conversation, I asked her to revisit the list. This time, she included essentials like milk and eggs, recognizing that these small additions could bring a sense of normalcy and dignity to those struggling. When I asked what she learned, her response was profound: "Dignity and respect matter!" 

This experience reinforced that people often respond best when approached with empathy and understanding. By creating a safe space for growth, we can inspire others to do the right thing, not out of obligation, but out of a genuine desire to make a positive impact. 

In my experience, people respond best when they feel seen, heard, and valued. As a leader, found that it is not about dictating what others should do, but rather guiding them toward discovering the impact of their actions on others. By doing so, we can create a ripple effect of kindness and compassion that spreads far beyond our immediate circle.

Dr. Omolola Omoteso-Famuyiwa is a minister who is passionate about sharing God's words for the healing of others.